The Alternative to Love cover

The Alternative to Love

Brendan Benson · 2005

43 min · 12 tracks · alternative rock

A vibrant blend of power pop melodies and introspective lyrics that capture the essence of early 2000s indie rock.

Top tracks — play these first

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    Cold Hands (Warm Heart) — This track stands out for its catchy hooks and poignant lyrical exploration of vulnerability within relationships, showcasing Benson's knack for melodic songwriting.
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    Alternative to Love — The title track encapsulates the album's themes of love and existential reflection through its upbeat tempo and thoughtful lyrics, making it a centerpiece of the record.
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    Feel Like Myself — This song captures a sense of personal liberation and self-acceptance with an infectious chorus that resonates strongly with listeners, highlighting Benson's lyrical depth.

Elevation

Our rating, out of 100 — and why.

AI-generated from five scored dimensions. An opinion, not a measurement.

50 /100
Foothills
Higher than 23% of albums we've rated

The album blends catchy melodies with introspective lyrics, showcasing Benson's pop craftsmanship.

What we noticed

  • The first three tracks establish a brisk tempo, while the fourth track introduces a more reflective tone with slower pacing.
  • Several songs feature layered vocal harmonies that create a rich texture, particularly in the choruses.
  • The album includes both upbeat anthems and introspective ballads, with transitions between these styles occurring frequently.
Composition 25% of the score
7/10

the writing — melody, harmony, structure, lyrics

Craft 20% of the score
6/10

production, performance, arrangement

Durability 25% of the score
6/10

whether it rewards returning to it

Distinctiveness 18% of the score
6/10

whether it sounds like itself

Sequencing 12% of the score
5/10

running order, pacing, length

Influence 4/10

Known within its scene. Reported but not counted — how far a record travelled describes its reception rather than the record, and a newer release has had less time to travel than an older one.

Is this for you?

Good fit if you like

  • catchy melodies for sing-alongs
  • short tracks for quick enjoyment
  • vibrant energy for uplifting moments
  • introspective lyrics for personal reflection

Maybe skip if you

  • prefer lengthy immersive experiences
  • seek heavy or dark themes

Where this album fits

Career context
Released in January 2005, The Alternative to Love was Brendan Benson's third studio album, following his critically acclaimed 2002 record, Lapalco. At this point in his career, Benson was gaining recognition within the alternative rock scene, establishing himself as a prominent songwriter after collaborating with members of The Raconteurs.
Stylistic neighbors
Jason Falkner· Ben Kweller· The Shins

Tracklist

Best experienced from track one — press play and let it unfold.

  • 1 Spit It Out 3:21
  • 2 Cold Hands (Warm Heart) 3:25
  • 3 Feel Like Myself 4:16
  • 4 Alternative to Love 4:35
  • 5 The Pledge 2:55
  • 6 Them and Me 4:00
  • 7 Biggest Fan 3:45
  • 8 Flesh and Bone 2:55
  • 9 Get It Together 3:32
  • 10 Gold Into Straw 3:43
  • 11 What I’m Looking For 3:31
  • 12 Between Us 3:09

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